Perspective. It all depends on the way you look at things. Not how you react. Some can react differently from how they see the situation. You could do something, and then wonder what you were thinking the next day. You could do something nice to someone and totally forget about it the next day. How can you view life from the sidelines? You should be out living, not watching life pass you by, and letting someone else live your life for you. Live YOUR life. Not someone else's. You should be honest, and be yourself. Don't like something because others like it. This is your time! But, hey, that's just my perspective.