You are 14! What do you know about life or love? Other than waking up, school, and sleep. Don't attempt to preach life lesson until you can at least be independent. You only learn through experience which you haven't had any. 

To the original poster (xoxbabygirl123):

Hey, have you ever thought about proofreading before publishing? Your grammar errors are so painfully apparent it completely distracts from the entire concept of the article.

Dear crazo,

I'm really sorry if someone hurt you and like FireandWater I would give you a bigggg hug right now, but there IS a point in love. 

I had my heart ripped open and boiled in oil and then burned and then the ashes were fed to wild dogs.

...Figuratively.

But still, WHILE you're in love, you feel totally blissful...

...and even if you feel tortured once it's over, that feeling of blissful perfection is worth the agony. At least to me it is. 

Even though some people (like me) haven't gotten over the heartbreak yet, I think everyone does...

...eventually...

...I hope.... : ) 

MangoMadness-- I wish you good luck in your relationship! 

I wish had someone to wish me good luck-- after I got my heart broken.

Hey, Mango, I'm even younger than you, just thirteen,  and I thought I was in love. I really truly did. When he broke my heart, I'd never felt so betrayed.

But I really hope this works out better for you than me. I'm not being sarcastic, I really am sincere. I'm very bitter, but I hope that everyone eventually finds the person that they were meant to be with.

Who knows? It really could be true love! :)

I've never really agreed that kids don't know what love truely means. Well, some do anyway. I think to love someone means that there is a person you care deeply for, someone that you want to protect, and keep them safe. To love means to want to spend the rest of your life with someone because you couldn't live without them.

And thats where I think you're right. Most kids don't want to get married these days, they don't want to have a life with someone and have kids. Because they don't want to be held down. Now, some of them might change their minds when they meet someone that actually means something to them. But some will grow up never knowing the true meaning of a healthy relationship.

My position in love at the age of thirteen, is nothing to make a spectacle of. But in my school, maybe. I've never had a boyfriend, and my crushes don't like me. No big deal to adults right? They think "Oh she's young, why waste her life being in love?" Well to me, as a teenager, my hormones are going crazy, and I' trying to find myself. I understand that I'm not emotionally stable, but love never helps that. Never having a boyfriend makes me feel that I'm not good enough, that no one will ever want me. I want to be loved, doesn't everyone? I hope one day that will change, and being so young people will look at this problem like its nothing. But it affects my whole life, my confidence, and my thoughts. And to me it's a big deal, to me, it's my life.

 I I agree with this wholeheartedly, I think that throwing love around like it's nothing really kills what it can be. That being said, not all relationships even at young ages are fake.  Also,  I disagree with your thought that if you were in a real relationship where you honestly put your partner in front of yourself, I'm not sure that you have to sacrifice all of your time. Because it wouldn't be a sacrifice. I agree still though, it's much easier to pour your life into your friends and activities, and not have the stress of handling a relationship on top of it. Well written, excellent job,

God bless,

 TSHE