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self acceptance

September 19, 2023
By Anonymous

In a small town, there lived a young woman named Kaylee, who had maintained feelings for Nate, a kind and autonomous soul with a deep spirituality, for as long as she can remember. But there was a problem that weighed heavily on her heart: she couldn’t seem to be herself around him, and the situation was that while she longed for a spiritual connection, she believed she needed to abandon her Christian upbringing to win Nate’s heart. 

For Kaylee, this problem mattered more than anything else in the world, Nate was the person she had admired from afar, and she hoped for him to see her as more than just a friend, believing that if she could only let her Christian upbringing and be more like her friends, those who partied and indulged in the pleasures of life, Nate might notice her and appreciate her in a different light.

So, Kaylee engaged on a clandestine journey to become someone she wasn’t. She started going to parties drinking, and attempting to set aside her deep connection with God. She also tried to involve herself in the world of spirituality, hoping to find common ground with Nate. Kaylee spent more and more autonomous time with him, hoping the proximity would eventually kindle the feelings she desired. 

However, as time went by, Kaylee began to realize that her efforts to change herself were in vain. She felt like a fake, and she missed the comfort and peace that her faith provided her. She gazed at the cross in her room wall, a symbol of her true self that she tried to ignore. 

It was a moment of clarity for Kaylee. She understood that if Nate couldn’t accept her for who she truly was, he wasn't the right person for her, and she wasn't the right person for him, a fact that became clear as she observed his growing distance from her as she tried to fit into a mold that wasn't her own. She decided to embrace her faith and her true self once again, and in doing so, she experienced a personal atrophy of the doubts and insecurities that had worried her. 

As fate would have it, Kaylee met a wonderful guy named Mario. He was not only Christian but also shared her values and beliefs. They fell in love, and together they embarked on a beautiful journey, supporting and cherishing each other’s true selves, a journey that was very different to her previous attempts to change herself to fit someone else's expectations.

In the end, Kaylee realized that it was essential to be authentic and true to herself. She learned that love should be based on acceptance and shared values, not on trying to be someone you’re not, a lesson she carried with her as she built a life of happiness and fulfillment with Mario, a life where she never had to hide her true self for the sake of love.


The author's comments:

This story is based on real events but i just switched it up a little.


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